The Forward
While writing, I was often asked by family and friends about my major objective for this project. People wanted to know how my book would be different from all the other books dealing with relationships. I said that reading mine would be like having a conversation with your partner, who is being honest with you about why men do the things we do. I stressed that the results should include an overall better understanding of our sometimes odd and confusing ways. There were several reasons that led me to write this book. On a general level, I want to help women acquire an improved appreciation for relationships from a male perspective. On a deeper level, I felt the need to share my knowledge with women who really wanted to know how men think. It was not that I set out to write a book, I was pushed into it by friends of my wife who after getting advice from me said I should share it with more women, so here I am. So why am I breaking the code and sharing this information? This might be a question that you may be asking yourself. Let me answer by simply stating that I am honestly finished with the harmful games, no more hide-and-seek or search-and- conquer missions. I feel that I have the opportunity to share what I know with the hope that it starts couples in the direction of having better communication and respecting the things that make us different from one another. I want to let women know what’s going on behind the eyes and in the minds of their significant others, as well as those who would seek to use them for their own needs. In my opinion, right now men and women are in what I call ”Relationship Emergency Mode” (REM) and the code of silence must be broken. I will not only share my thoughts with you on the always changing and mystifying world of relationships, but I will examine and break down a collection of actual relationship situations women have found themselves in. I will discuss the way each woman handled their individual circumstances and give you a detailed look at how things might have been different if they would have had at least a slightly better understanding of men.
Chapter 1 'The Introduction'
Chapter 2 'The Code'
Chapter 3 'The Lying Truth'
Chapter 12 'Don't Be Fooled By The Feeling'