Chapter 12
In this chapter, I want to talk about your feelings and emotions. We have discussed many of the things men do, but we have not gone into how you can learn to get a handle on your emotions. This will require that you use the "fight the urge" list we talked about in chapter one. If you needed a refresher in the previous chapter, I hope you went back and brought yourself up to speed because this chapter will make many references to my earlier points. I'm sure at least some of you have thought it before and may have even called a man (or two) a snake on your own. I'm going to fill you in on the real reasons why men are snakes and the different types you can encounter. Most are are as harmless as the garden snake, many are constrictors, and finally there are the venomous kind. The garden snake guy seems to always hang around. He can slither through the grass and look like he is the type of person who handles their business, but it's just a show. If you call him on his actions, he usually either can't produce anything, or is full of excuses. When confronted with the saying "put up or shut up," he usually takes the latter. Garden snake men will usually find a rock to hide under and wait for the next person to lift it up and scream, "Snake!" In order for the otherwise annoying garden snake man to appear bigger than he is, he usually seeks women with a low self-esteem who will make him feel like he is more than just a garden snake. These guys love to talk the talk, but always have excuses or an emergency to handle when it's time to walk the walk. A good way to tell if a guy is a garden snake is to present him with a situation that would require him to perform or express himself in public. It's not an exact science but generally, garden snake men tend to avoid situations that might expose any shortcomings they may have. If he asks you out, tell him you want to go to a place with a karaoke night, and that you would like to perform. The typical garden snake man will be all for it in the beginning, but the closer you get to the date he will start to create smoke screens like trouble at the job, or a critical situation with his best friend. There is a twenty-four hour window between the time the date should start, and him trying to leave you a voice or text message about.......
Forward 'The Forward'
Chapter 1 'The Introduction'
Chapter 2 'The Code'
Chapter 3 'The Lying Truth'